Everything we know about Jon Snow’s mysterious true father on ‘Game of Thrones’

  • The “kidnapping” of Lyanna Stark

Prince Rhaegar eventually won the tournament and was given a crown of blue winter roses so he could name the “Queen of Love and Beauty.” Instead of choosing his wife Elia (who was there), Rhaegar gave the winter roses to Lyanna Stark (who was already betrothed to Robert Baratheon).

On the fifth season of “Game of Thrones,” Littlefinger told Sansa Stark what happened that day:

“When Rhaegar won, everyone cheered for their prince. I remember the guards laughing when he took off his helmet and they saw that silver hair and how handsome he was. Until he rode right past his wife, Elia Martell, and all the smiles died. I’ve never seen so many people so quiet. He rode past his wife and he lay a crown of winter roses in Lyanna’s lap — blue with frost. How many tens of thousands had to die because Rhaegar chose your aunt?”

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According to “A World of Ice and Fire,” Lyanna’s brothers were furious at Rhaegar’s decision and considered it a slight against Lyanna’s honor as a noblewoman.

Some months later, after the tournament, Rhaegar and a dozen of his closest companions journeyed out into the Riverlands where he met Lyanna once again.

“Not ten leagues from Harrenhall, Rhaegar fell upon Lyanna Stark of Winterfell and carried her off, lighting a fire that would consume his house and kind and all those he loved — and half the realm besides,” Martin wrote in “A World of Ice and Fire.”

While some Westerosi called it a “kidnapping,” we really don’t know any details about how Rhaegar and Lyanna happened to meet that day, nor why they disappeared together. Could they have planned the meeting? Was it happenstance?

  • The Tower of Joy and Rhaegar’s death

After the “kidnapping,” Lyanna’s father Rickard and oldest brother Brandon went to King’s Landing to demand Aerys address Rhaegar’s “crime.” Aerys murdered Brandon and Rickard, and then ordered the execution of Ned Stark and Robert Baratheon.

Robert — who was furious over the disappearance of his betrothed and believed Rhaegar had stolen her and raped her — led the rebellion against King Aerys and his son.

As the war waged in Westeros, no one knew for certain where Lyanna was being held while Rhaegar led the Targaryen forces in battle. Elia Martell and her children were kept in King’s Landing — King Aerys wanted them close.

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The fight came to head at the Trident river, where Prince Rhaegar Targaryen and Robert Baratheon fought fiercely in one-on-one combat. Robert crushed in Rhaegar’s chest with his warhammer, scattering the rubies from his Targaryen armor into the river.

In the books, Daenerys has a series of visions from the House of the Undying. One of these visions was her brother Rhaegar’s death: “Rubies flew like drops of blood from the chest of a dying prince, and he sank to his knees in the water and with his last breath murmured a woman’s name.”

That woman’s name was likely Lyanna Stark.

After the rebellion was won, Ned went looking for his sister and found her in Dorne at a place referred to as the Tower of Joy. On the sixth season of “Game of Thrones,” Bran had a vision of Ned’s arrival to the tower. He and Howland Reed killed the kingsguard stationed there, and Ned went into the tower only to find Lyanna dying. In Ned’s memories, she was clutching withering blue rose petals and laying in a bed of blood.

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She had given birth to a baby boy — Jon Snow — and begged Ned to take her son and protect him from Robert’s wrath.

“He’ll kill him, you know he will,” Lyanna told Ned. “Promise me. Promise me.”

  • Jon Snow and the Prince That Was Promised prophecy

As mentioned earlier, Rhaegar seemed to change after reading a set of scrolls. In the books, Aemon Targaryen (the maester of Castle Black and brother to the Mad King Aerys), tells Sam Tarly that he and Rhaegar discussed a prophecy known as the Prince That Was Promised.

At first, both Aemon and the Dragon Prince believed Rhaegar himself was the prophesied hero. “Later he became persuaded that it was his own son who fulfilled the prophecy,” Aemon says in the books.

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Another of Daenerys’ House of the Undying visions was of Rhaegar, and a woman who was likely Elia Martell with his newborn son Aegon.

“Will you make a song for him?” the woman asked.

“He has a song,” the man replied. “He is the prince that was promised, and his is the song of ice and fire.” He looked up when he said it and his eyes met Dany’s, and it seemed as if he saw her standing there beyond the door. “There must be one more,” he said, though whether he was speaking to her or the woman in the bed she could not say. “The dragon has three heads.”

He went to the window seat, picked up a harp, and ran his fingers lightly over its silvery strings. Sweet sadness filled the room as man and wife and babe faded like the morning mist, only the music lingering behind to speed her on her way.

Rhaegar had two children with Elia, and it’s possible that his “the dragon has three heads” line meant he believed he needed three children in order to fulfill the prophecy. Some believe Elia was too weakened after having two children, and was unable to carry a viable pregnancy for a third time.

This might tie into Rhaegar’s relationship with Lyanna and his possible obsession with the Prince That Was Promised prophecy, especially if he legally cast aside Elia in order to marry Lyanna and have a third legitimate child.

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If Jon was born from a legitimate marriage between Rhaegar and Lyanna, that makes him Prince Jon Targaryen. Coupled with Lyanna’s oft-quoted last words to Ned, “promise me,” Jon is literally the Prince That Was Promised.

Others believe Daenerys Targaryen also fits the characteristics of this prophecy, but for that explanation you can read our full breakdown of the theories.

  • There’s still so much we don’t know

Rhaegar’s actions bring so many questions to the surface. Did he truly love Lyanna, or was she a tool through which he wanted to bring a prophecy to life? Why did he cast aside Elia, and how much did she know about his relationship with Lyanna? Did Rhaegar realize he was sentencing the Seven Kingdoms to decades of war and strife when he chose Lyanna? And lastly, will Jon Snow ever learn about his true lineage and possible claim to the Iron Throne?

“Game of Thrones” has yet to show Prince Rhaegar, even in a flashback. And while the slow drip of information is keeping fans on their toes, we hope to learn more about this mysterious character in the future.

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